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SONIAP
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Hi

Ive managed to really offend my dad , and i just didnt think before i spoke – he wont forgive me now? Should i just not speak for a while? Has anyone had some experience of really upsetting their parents?

What can i do – please help ,

thanks

posted over 5 years ago
boredstephanie
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If you had a fairly good relationship with your dad already, I don’t think you have to worry about it too much. Hes your dad, you probably love him and he you so just apologize and it will work out =)

posted over 5 years ago
 
MurasakiNeko
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If he has a temper or nurses grudges he may need some time to cool off, but like boredstephanie said, if you have a good relationship with him he won’t be angry forever.

It does help to apologize though, if the apology is sincere. Find a time you’re sure he’s paying attention, a quiet time when he’s alone and not stressed by other things. You could even write him a note. Then just say you’re sorry for upsetting him with what you said— and keep it simple. A lot of people have respect for those who can openly apologize with no excuses or "but"s and it will likely ease the tension faster.

posted over 5 years ago
 
MiuSan
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MiuSan
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a) time
b) actions
=
making it better again

posted over 5 years ago
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