Well, shoes costs a lot but love is a different topic, you can’t put a price to that. You just both have to meet halfway. If it bothers him so much that you’re wearing heels, then give it a go, give the favor some chance and see if it works for you. If it doesn’t, let him know, and if he doesn’t understand that, then you have to just see from his POV why, maybe it’s affecting his confidence since it’s shorter. You just have to put some effort making him feel like he has no reason to be insecure. :)posted almost 2 years ago
It’s not that shoes are more important; it’s just that it’s immature for a guy to care, in my opinion. I’m not saying he’s an immature guy in general, and I know most guys don’t like the idea of having a taller girlfriend. I just think it’s silly to expect the woman to always be smaller and daintier than the man.
My boyfriend is 5’7. I’m 5’9 without heels. Some heels I wear put me at almost 6’2. I wear them when we go out on dates. :P He doesn’t mind.posted almost 2 years ago
Welllll my boyfriend’s height isn’t the ONLY reason, because I have really bad feet (bunions, bone spurs, arthritis, bipartite sesamoid … I’m a dancer), but he is just about one inch taller than I am, and I don’t wear heels around him.posted almost 2 years ago
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Well… I would maybe wear flats a little more often than I do now, but I would definately not stop wearing heels. I mean, apparantly you like him despite his heigth, he should like you despite the heels!posted almost 2 years ago
My boyfriend pouts for two minutes then gets over it. He and I are almost the same height, when I wear heels I stand about three inches taller than him! So trust me. There are guys who really do not care.posted over 1 year ago
I’d say wear them, see how he feels and more importantly how thing with him pan out, then go from there.posted over 1 year ago