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Would you ever change your look for the guy you liked? Say you liked a guy who really liked sporty girls, would you change your whole style to impress him?

posted almost 2 years ago
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yeah. i think so, sporty is good, and why don’t you give it a try. u never know which style suits u best. it is for him and for u to discover urself

posted almost 2 years ago
 
pupuren
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pupuren
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It depends. If hanging around a person opens my eyes to changing my lifestyle, it might change my look. However, I wouldn’t necessarily change my look solely for the sake of attracting one guy’s attention. Then again, I’ve never actually put BGRs as a high priority in my life; finding and dressing for myself, and expressing my individuality was. ^^

posted almost 2 years ago
 
HauteandComely
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HauteandComely
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if a guyloves you he would luv u for who u are ad that includes your style.(unless of course ur look is a breech of the law)what happens if it doest workout?would you keep changing yourself for each guy that comes your way?

posted almost 2 years ago
 
lindajudour
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I agree with HauteandComely, but I would change my look a bit if he preferred it a different way because what if I liked a style that he didn’t have but adored him for who he is? But I wouldn’t change my whole look because that would defeat the purpose of who I am.

posted almost 2 years ago
 
robin77
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robin77
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NO!

posted almost 2 years ago
 
debiparna_c
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debiparna_c
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nope.your style is a reflection of who you are and things you like.if he likes you he like the whole of you and if you guys have differing tastes and opinions about even personal style then cool.respecting differences is more important than changing them for the sake of another person.

posted almost 2 years ago
 
anyelina
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anyelina
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No !… Simple as that .

posted almost 2 years ago
 
tova
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tova
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it’s one thing to change your style because a guy has broadened your interests & your style has changed to reflect that, but if you change your style simply because you think he likes that kind of look, you’re likely to lose his interest anyway. why? because you won’t be being you. style is about confidence and comfort. style is personal and shouldn’t be dictated by anyone elses interests other than your own!

so, to respond, nope! i wouldn’t change my style for anyone but me. :)

posted almost 2 years ago
 
FakeBlikeu
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FakeBlikeu
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Maybe…

posted almost 2 years ago
 
loveonthebackseat
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loveonthebac...
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I don’t think so… that would be like lying to myself..

posted almost 2 years ago
 
LD_P
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LD_P
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No – if you want someone to like you for who you are, then you need to be who you are! And if you don’t want them to like you for who you are, then what’s the point?

posted almost 2 years ago
 
Yumi_Kaeko
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Yumi_Kaeko
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No. I’d want him to like me for who I am, and not who I pretend to be

posted almost 2 years ago
 
AksharTroublesome
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i would advise against it. guys might find it weak sometimes.
however, if he’s always dressed to impress and you always wear sport shoes or any other style that doesn’t match, or if you go out to a place where your clothes don’t really fit, on a regular basis, then you should consider it. it also depends on his reaction: if he says he’s cool with it, then don’t, but if he seems bothered, he might hint to it, one way or another.
of course, this stands for the guys as well, for them changing their clothes style for (because of) a girl..

posted almost 2 years ago
 
theiconiccat
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theiconiccat
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no!ofcourse no!

posted almost 2 years ago
 
hanichu28
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hanichu28
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I believe it’s okay to an extent. I mean if you’re just trying a different style of clothes that’s one thing, but if you start to change you’re personality and loose sight of who you are, then it’s a problem. But if you want an honest and true relationship, be real and let him get to know the real you! :)

posted almost 2 years ago
 
BrunetteJJ
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BrunetteJJ
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To be honest, I’m always up to changing my style but for a guy in the situation you’re describing, ermm not a chance.

posted almost 2 years ago
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