3 Replies. Posted by CheriChictopia in Living and Advice.
In the Living and Advice Forum section, talk about your life, dating and relationships. Ask for advice or rant about your problems!
xo,
Cheri
really awesome.
14 Replies. Posted by CheriChictopia in Living and Advice.
Take the ultimate personality test… the Myers-Briggs test and tell us what your personality type is!
I honestly believe that this test is accurate and tells you a lot about yourself!
xo,
Cheri
Am I the only one who got ISTP here? hahaha. I loved my results a bunch. Helped me see the positives of who I am. :))
13 Replies. Posted by MsElaneous in Living and Advice.
I’m a rather poor college student trying to get into fashion (I’ve mostly been a jeans and t-shirts kinda girl, but I started shopping at ModCloth about a year ago and am trying to break into it). The problem is, I have a budget of about $100/month for clothes, if that. I know I’ll only be able to buy a piece (maybe two) at a time for my wardrobe, but I don’t know where to start. Any help?
Try www.riversandroads.co.uk if you are in EU , much cheaper minus all the taxes.
7 Replies. Posted by Chessy in Living and Advice.
One person posts an outfit and says "would you ever wear this outfit?"
The person below says yes or no or yes with a different pair of shoes etc
Would you ever wear this outfit ?
http://38.media.tumblr.com/220f059e2036cc5af2c141ca6e0cc48a/tumblr_n8l0iwvhWh1r4fk4fo1_1280.jpg
yes! it is comfortable and easy to wear :)
please check www.okay-app.com
15 Replies. Posted by catiebeatty in Living and Advice.
I might go really boring this year and ask for a good kitchen knife, haha. It’s for my own safety, lol!
I could do with a new upgrade of my phone! It's not a must but it would be nice :)
55 Replies. Posted by sweetfreedom85 in Living and Advice.
I might be the only one that might think this but, Have u ever wonder how high school life would have been diff, if u went back dressing the way u dress today, compared to how u dressed when u were attending High School?
Well we had uniforms as well. Apart from that, I would have definetly listened to my mother's fashion advice less.
3 Replies. Posted by krissylove in Living and Advice.
Here's the deal, I'm 17 years old and my body has just suddenly developed and I have no idea how to handle it. All of a sudden I have DD sized boobs and huge hips and it makes me feel really uncomfortable because I feel like people who pass me by just look at them. I'm not even the seductive/mysterious type of girl....I'm really boyish, loud, and completely awkward around guys (insert nervous laugh). I was just wondering if anyone in the community has dealt with this and knows how to embrace it! It just feels weird because I feel like I have a body that just doesn't match my personality.
Well, people will stare for the rest of your life so I suggest you simply do not react. I satrted getting the same reactions when I was 14 years old, although I didn't have your bust size, but as I got older I understood not to react and it still happens to this day. It is rude to stare no matter how good looking some one or something is, you are a person, not a canvas.
It's very important you learn to feel confident in your own skin. Exercise usually makes me feel better about myself when all else fails. You don't have t be curvy to be "seductive" or "mysterious." Also now is tge time to start experimenting with fashion choice (within a certain budget, lol) and by the time you're in your twenties you'll be fab-u-lous!
6 Replies. Posted by xBeautifulSoulx in Living and Advice.
I love fashion, but I'm not able to dress the way I truly want to because I'm pretty overweight and the clothes I like and want to wear a) I'm not comfortable in and b) just don't look right on me. I'm in the process of losing the weight, but I won't be able to dress the way I want until I've lost it all. I know there are big girls who have a great style and can dress well, but I just can't. I'm wondering if there are any others out there who can't dress the way they really want to because of their size or any other reason...
Sorry to hear that Sally :(
1 Reply. Posted by IreneSuhwon93 in Living and Advice.
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I love anything related to life hacks! I really enjoyed your tips. Especially the one about lighting a candle with a piece of spaggheti. I have candles all over my house and sometimes my lighter just likes to disappear (because they do that, right). Now I can actually use spaggheti!
3 Replies. Posted by dciree in Living and Advice.
why? and what do i do?
As i today's era no body likes criticism, you need to look at the things in a positive way and move on, you need to boost self confidence.
1 Reply. Posted by dciree in Living and Advice.
i am in my 20's and he is grandfather age if that matters. i actually want one more charm/trinket added but can't come up with ideas. help me :D
Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/listing/130445548/personalized-leather-engraved-key-chain
I think that is a perfectly appropriate gift! If I were a doctor, I would probably think that that was pretty cool.
If you are getting it engraved, just make sure not to have it engraved with anything creepy! :P
14 Replies. Posted by kaleidoscopeeyes in Living and Advice.
so i make really awesome tie-dye t-shirts and i want to sell them online, but I don’t want to pay for a website or anything because who knows if anyone will buy them.. does anyone know of like a place to make a free website where I can sell stuff and how to advertise?
i thought of ebay but does anyone have any better ideas?
this may not be the place to ask but I figured that some of you must sell clothes online because youre all so stylish.
thank you!
Etsy and Chictopia Shop! There are also some iPhone apps that let you take photos of your clothes and post them to sell. I think a quick google search will help you find them!
2 Replies. Posted by JAlma in Living and Advice.
It's more than just an Eminem classic - I am hoping to clean out my closet! Literally not figuratively.
I've taken on the task to revamp my stye after feeling so insecure and out of place during my first year of college. But I've always felt like my wardrobe was a bit plane and a tad bit childish for my age and taste. I seriously do not know where to begin, where to shop (tighttight budget), and how to feel comfortable in the clothes that I wear.
I accidentally ran across Chictopia's Twitter page and this couldn't have come at a better time! I am sure there are many, many, experienced shoppers and fashionistast out there that can provide a couple of words of wisdom. I'd love to hear more about how you started your style journey, any fashion advice that has helped you along the way, and of course any beauty tricks! I'd love to hear it all!
Please leave a comment, share your experience and enlighten mine!
I think that's so great! I definitely experimented a lot, a lot to figure out my style, and even then I'm still evolving and changing every day. Just try everything you're interested in! First, you should get a little inspiration. Whether it's found in your own life, fashion magazines or online, it's good to start with something that inspires you. I would look at style icons like Alexa Chung or Chloe Sevigny for some inspo to start with. There's this really great fashion talk on personal style that I enjoyed and I think you might find helpful: personal style and do you have it?
Just try and find inspiration in your own life. What makes you feel excited and confident usually means you're going in the right direction with your style.
Since you're on a budget, I'd definitely go thrift shopping and hit up a Good Will, or do online vintage shopping (although that can be pricier) - you'd be surprised how much you can find at thrift shops and how you can mix completely unique pieces together. You can also shop at H&M or Uniqlo for lower priced clothing.
I hope this helps! Keep us updated on what's happening with your wardrobe. I'm interested to see what happens :)
9 Replies. Posted by Ezelaylie in Living and Advice.
So because some people’s bucket list can pretty much be written as novels let’s just stick to the top 3 things you really want to do before you kick the bucket?
Here’s mine: 1) go to LA..! 2) Have a shower under a waterfall (maybe with someone ;)haha) 3) Discover a new type of flora or fauna.
travel many countries, and outside of europe too; get married; be proud of my career at some point
4 Replies. Posted by So_into_style in Living and Advice.
What is the best way to move on from a relashionship you thought one day could last forever?
I'm still in love and can't forget, after 2 years without seeing the guy!
Avoiding contact, no stalking at all, blocking from everywhere, fights ended with disgust and nevetheless someone new, if not for love at least for sex.
5 Replies. Posted by madelinelechat in Living and Advice.
Whenever Summer comes around, I always tell myself I'm going to do a type of "spring cleaning" but it's always so hard to let go of stuff. Everything feels like it has a memory or a purpose.
Does anyone have any tips on how they spring clean? Methods of parting with clothes & accessories or finding better ways to organize them?
You can do it in levels. First separate out the clothes you like to wear often. The second type of clothes that you want to keep but don't know how to wear or haven't worn for while. Third the pile you can donate right away.
Now you may have a lot many clothes in the second category.... over a period of two - three months if you don't miss anything from the lot, it's time to part ways.
And BTW so that you don't have to throw away /donate a lot, be sure to smart shop in the first place :) Always ask yourself if you really need the item, if you can wear it with exsiting atleast 3 pieces in your wardrobe etc.
Good luck!
11 Replies. Posted by lovejoystyles in Living and Advice.
Share your thoughs... do you believe there is only one person on the planet for you... lovejoystyles.com
Hi babe, this is SUCH a good question. And if u dont mind i really wanna participate.
In my POV, your soulmate is yourself. If you love yourself, you have a good job, you take care of youself, the right guy/girl (whatever) will come along. You will have this sort of charismatic quality in you to get the people you like.
I am always wondering why people like the quote "YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE SOMEONE LOVES YOU", for me the quote should have been "YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE YOU LOVE YOURSELF". That's the point of living.
Every human should love themselves first, even if you are such a hopeless romantic, you know when you're single you can do more girly thing more. And looking good makes you feel good.
Cheers!
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7 Replies. Posted by breathexmichaela in Living and Advice.
What are some good stores that have cheap, cute clothes and an online store? Besides forever 21.
Burlington Coat Factory, amazon, Nylon mag merch, WANELO, polyvore, ebay, overstock, pacsun, urban outfitters
1 Reply. Posted by lizolsen2011 in Living and Advice.
I just turned 30 yesterday. I don't see it as a big deal but a lot of my friends are having a hard time with it. If your over 30 did you have trouble with the Bday or is it just a number to you? Did you make any conscious changes to your style?
I won't be 30 for a few years yet, as I'm 25 now. But I don't see how you should be forced to change your style just because of your age. It really shouldn't matter. My sister wears animal eared hats at 21, and I know a few other adults who do as well. A relative of mine is is over 40 and wears ripped jeans, looks great on her. My opinion is if it suits you and you like it, wear whatever style you want. ^_^
This is an awesome example of people dressing however they want fearlessly- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FKAR3HsrNsQ#t=76
2 Replies. Posted by lizolsen2011 in Living and Advice.
I'm personally not big on New Year's Resolutions, but I've decided this year to try to do better saving for a house. Are you making a New Year's Resolution? If so what is it? Do you think you'll be able to stick to it?
I don't make Resolutions, but this time, for 2014, I'll just always think that everyday is a chance for me to do better and this year would be AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!
7 Replies. Posted by fashionophile in Living and Advice.
Besides frat parties and social clubs, are there good online dating sites out there? Is it worth trying online dating sites like Okcupid, Tinder, Date My School?
OkCupid is so much fun, honestly. But I think it's true that you should totally get out of your comfort zone in college and try and meet people at parties, in organizations, and even out at local bars near your school! However, once that's run dry ...definitely give those sites a shot.
I'm all for it because I've met some cool guys on there and you never know! A friend of mine is in a serious relationship with someone from Tinder. :)
10 Replies. Posted by the_ed in Living and Advice.
So, I’m thinking to save printing & transport costs that the magazine that I want to get started should begin online. How many of you read online magazines or e-zines? How often do you read them? Would that change if you could contribute to an e-zine? Also, is there a site out there that hosts grassroots e-zines for cheap (or free)? How should I get started on my electronic magazine?
I think an online magazine would be a great idea. Depending on what was in the magazine, and if i liked it, yes I would probably contribute.
5 Replies. Posted by zimliss in Living and Advice.
I need a few good sites that either deliver to Canada, or are in Canada. Anything funky, dark, or with band tee’s is aright with me. Cheap is nice too.
for leather stuffs, you may visit http://www.paucileather.com/. I tries it once and i am loving it. Hope you guys will like it.
5 Replies. Posted by j_fo in Living and Advice.
Im turning 18 in January and even though its months ahead i like to prepare and budget in advance. I was wondering if anyone had any cool ides for what I should do? My birthday fallson a Wednsday but i was just thinking of celebrating it the weekend after. I don’t want anything like a “party, party” but rather a small group of friends doing something memorable and fun! I was thinking like a 2 day event where one day we have a scavenger hunt(a list of things to do and we split into teams), dinner at a nice resteraunt, sleep over my house that night then the next day go out for brunch, and hit the town for a girls day or just go to the movies. I was considering things such as :
- the season (my birthday is during winter and very cold so limits the things we can do)
-transportation (i was considering a limo for a couple of hours but if not should they drive everywhere or ride in my parents truck all together?)
-Cute DIY Invitations (something very unique that’ll make them want to cancel all their plans and come)
If anyone is a great party planner and has any ideas please let me know!
Or just say what you did for your 18th birthday?
Have you ever thought that anyone will feel bored of the same monotonous routine of cutting birthday cakes on the birthday parties? Why not use some hilarious 18th birthday party ideas that can help throwing prank for the birthday boy
2 Replies. Posted by LittleBee in Living and Advice.
I’m seeing teeny boppers wearing cat eye eyeliners and lipstick. I find this kind of funny because my friends and I didn’t start wearing makeup until college. Maybe I’m not used to this yet. What age do you think girls should start thinking about wearing makeup?
I know that some North American teens (boys and girls) from public schools start experimenting with makeup around 13-14, the average age for early puberty. It has been like this for decades, especially during my parents’ generations.
I think makeup shouldn’t be a “required thing” for people to wear in general, unless it’s for theatre, filming, or cosmetics retail. Personally for me, I love makeup— because I enjoy playing with colors and expressing myself. If another person doesn’t want to wear makeup, she shouldn’t be forced to wear them.
I think it boils down to an individual; skin and health should also be considered too. I think it’s fine if a 14-year-old goth girl or boy wants to experiment with makeup, but I think s/he just needs to check with the dermatologist first. Like, limiting foundations for special occasion or just sticking with eye-wear.
Anywhere under middle school is a bit too young.
1 Reply. Posted by discofabulous in Living and Advice.
My apartment does not come with central heating. :( This means I have to use space heaters when I’m at home and this results in higher PG&E bills during cold months. I really need tips on how I can keep my apartment warmer without using the heater too much. Is this even possible?
Make sure your blinds or curtains are open on sunny days! My mom leaves her’s open on sunny days during winter and it heats their entire house! Also, have parties! Nothing like friends (and lots of warm bodies) to make you feel warm and cozy, haha
8 Replies. Posted by misslipgloss100 in Living and Advice.
Before it all finally ends for you is there something you want to accomplish with your life if so what is it? If you could live forever would you? What do you think happens when we die? What sounds scarier an eternity of suffering or everything you are just fading away to nothingness?
I want to be able to travel the world with my family and create a wonderful home that we’re always excited to come home to.
2 Replies. Posted by becca142 in Living and Advice.
New member here so be nice :)
I recently bought my first pair of footy pajamas and it game me an idea and wanted to get others thoughts on it. So footy pajamas are just like really loose tights, which made me think even more. Does anyone wear tights to bed? I started thinking about it and it seemed really really practical! You woudnt have to worry about loosing a sock in bed, some people hate pajama pants bunching up and it would keep you really warm! Im going to try it tonight and see how it goes. Wish me luck :)
I feel like I’ve tried it before, probably when I was little. They’re kind of constricting and you run the risk of getting a hole in the middle of the night so I probably wouldn’t wear them to bed.
26 Replies. Posted by boredstephanie in Living and Advice.
I never understood why people seem to love fame? At least for me, it doesn’t seem all that great. You can’t go on a date or go anywhere without people bothering you. Imagine you’re having a realluy bad day and freaking cameras are going off in your face! and anytime you get together with someone to break up or do something stupid, its all over the tabloids and internet. People are always criticizing you and you can read tons of insults about yourself online. If you wear an outfit, people will always judge it and bash it if they don’t like it. Yeah you have fans but do you think they seriously care? most likely after a couple years you won’t mean anything to them and your psoter gets replaced by the next rising star. No matter how many fans you have, they can’t replace having a small group of people of geniunely care about you.
It just doesn’t seem worth it to me xD
I think you raised a really good question. In my opinion, there are pros and cons of being famous. But, if someone chooses something just to be famous then that person is gonna suffer a great deal. You have to love what you do and only then you can enjoy your life. I wouldn’t mind to be recognized by millions of people for what I do as long as I can grow.
158 Replies. Posted by fshnnerd in Living and Advice.
I do not really like where I live, i like in Houston,& there seems to never be something to do especially since I live in the suburbs. I always try to go downtown so i can fill the hole in my heart that NYC belongs in since i was born there but it doesnt do much.
So do you love your city.? If so why? whats there to do?
if not, why?& where do you think you belong?
I live in Austin, and I’m not much of a fan. I’m used to public transport and I hate driving, so all the traffic jams and lack of parking really drive me insane. Going out is ok, but there is no club scene and dancing venues are super limited. There’s nowhere to walk to, like the only food within a mile is crappy convenience store food and taco carts. Also, the summers are awful! It does have some good things, like really hipstery coffeeshops and bars, good food, and a really good music scene, so I suppose it’s not too terrible.
I really want to move outside the US, maybe Montreal, or back to Moscow. Or Tokyo or Hong Kong!
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