Wear more like this! It’s beautiful!
It matches the bohemian/vintage style you say you like, but it doesn’t look over-the-top or costumey. And it also looks comfortable and practical for your lifestyle.
Let go of the fear of appearing “costumey.” In person, I get tons of compliments on my eccentric style. Only on the internet are people who hate it rude enough to say I look like I’m wearing a “costume.” You can stick with safe fashion and your clothes will be acceptable to everyone, but nothing really special; or you can get creative and put your personality into your fashion, and some people will absolutely love it while some people hate it.
I’d rather stand out and look awesome to some people, than look lukewarm to everyone. :)posted 4 months ago