what looks good on you? wear something that you know is figure flattering and sexy but not too try-hard. dark wash skinnies with flats and an eye-catching top (sequins, beading, cinching, etc) will turn heads. i don’t necessarily agree with buky, flats are effortlessly sexy.posted about 6 years ago
heels may make you look sexy but if everyone else is dresses really casual, it will definitely look like you are trying too hard. Just go for something sexy but still casual. maybe wedges would be a good in-between flats and heels because they will elongate your legs but are more casual than heels.posted about 6 years ago
if you’re going to wear jeans, i think you can balance it with some nice heels.posted about 6 years ago
If it’s a mostly casual-guys setting, I would say heels seem like an overkill. There are a lot of different flat options (boots, brogues, oxfords, ballet flats) that are a modern and chic option as long as you pair it with a good outfit. Even with jeans, I think heels at a casual place seem a bit out of place.
For the outfit, wear something light and casual that you will be comfortable in, but make sure it’s dressy enough so that you don’t feel out of place at a party setting. Wearing some menswear/boyfriend-style pieces would probably work out nicely as long as you balance them with some more feminine pieces. Since you said you don’t want to look like you are trying too hard, that’s probably the best way to go.posted about 6 years ago
go for something that looks like what you usually wear. the last thing you want to do is catch they’re attention negatively. I was out somewhere with a new boyfriend who had recently broken up with another girl (who I didn’t know). She showed up to the event, though, in a mini denim halter dress and red platform heels with tons of makeup on. She was flirting with my boyfriend all night and it made him totally uncomfortable and glad he broke up with her! so you’re right, don’t get too sexy, and don’t do something you wouldn’t normally do! If it’s casual, then you can wear flats. If you’re a dressy girl, wear a nice dress, if you prefer jeans, wear some jeans and a nice top. Perhaps ask what any of the other girls that may show up are wearing so you don’t stand out, but look nice.posted about 6 years ago